fix: 10s timeout on handshake CallAnswer; button stays visible during connect

- handshake.rs: add 10s timeout on recv_signal() waiting for CallAnswer —
  previously hung forever if relay didn't respond, making join button
  disappear with no feedback
- main.ts: keep join button visible + show "Connecting…" state instead of
  hiding it before the await; button restores correctly on error

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

crates/wzp-client/src/handshake.rs

@@ -101,12 +101,15 @@ pub async fn perform_handshake(
         .await
         .map_err(HandshakeError::Transport)?;
 
-    // 5. Wait for CallAnswer
+    // 5. Wait for CallAnswer — 10s timeout guards against relay not responding.
-    let answer = transport
+    let answer = tokio::time::timeout(
-        .recv_signal()
+        std::time::Duration::from_secs(10),
-        .await
+        transport.recv_signal(),
-        .map_err(HandshakeError::Transport)?
+    )
-        .ok_or(HandshakeError::ConnectionClosed)?;
+    .await
+    .map_err(|_| HandshakeError::Transport(wzp_proto::TransportError::Timeout { ms: 10_000 }))?
+    .map_err(HandshakeError::Transport)?
+    .ok_or(HandshakeError::ConnectionClosed)?;
 
     let (callee_identity_pub, callee_ephemeral_pub, callee_signature, _chosen_profile) =
         match answer {

desktop/src/main.ts

@@ -331,7 +331,9 @@ joinVoiceBtn.addEventListener("click", async () => {
   const s = loadSettings();
   if (!relay) { showToast("No relay configured"); return; }
   connectPending = true;
-  joinVoiceBtn.classList.add("hidden");
+  const origText = joinVoiceBtn.textContent;
+  joinVoiceBtn.textContent = "Connecting…";
+  (joinVoiceBtn as HTMLButtonElement).disabled = true;
   try {
     await invoke("connect", {
       relay: relay.address,
@@ -344,9 +346,10 @@ joinVoiceBtn.addEventListener("click", async () => {
   } catch (e: any) {
     console.error("connect failed:", e);
     showToast(`Join failed: ${e}`);
-    joinVoiceBtn.classList.remove("hidden");
   } finally {
     connectPending = false;
+    joinVoiceBtn.textContent = origText;
+    (joinVoiceBtn as HTMLButtonElement).disabled = false;
   }
 });